Somewhere in my house there's a cassette tape I will never let anyone hear. It's Jenny, age nine, at her first piano recital, playing a piece called "The Happy Farmer." She got about four bars in, forgot everything, and just started making up her own song. Loud. Confident. Completely wrong. The teacher's mouth fell open. And Jenny finished, stood up, and took a bow like she'd meant to do it.
I'm Walt, Jenny's dad, and first I want to thank all of you for being here. Some of you drove a long way. Some of you flew. Andre's parents came the farthest of anyone, and it means the world that you're at this table with us tonight. Thank you for making today what it is.
Now, back to that recital. Because that's who she's always been. Jenny doesn't panic when the plan falls apart. She improvises, she keeps her chin up, and somehow she convinces the whole room she planned it that way. She stopped taking lessons at eleven. She never did learn "The Happy Farmer." But she learned something better, which is how to keep playing when the music runs out.
And then she met Andre. Andre, the first time you came to dinner, you asked me about the old upright in the corner, the one nobody touches. You sat down and played something soft while she watched you from the doorway. I saw her face. I knew. You're steady where she's spontaneous, and you look at her like she's still taking that bow. To your parents, thank you for raising a man who makes my daughter feel that safe. Our families are one now, and I couldn't be happier about it.
So here's to Jenny and Andre. May you always make it up as you go, and may it always sound like a song.
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