For a stretch of years, my whole week pointed at Saturday. Every other one, I'd pick up Ana at nine, and we'd go to the zoo. Same zoo, same order, every time. She insisted. Penguins first, because she said they were dressed for a wedding. Then the goats you could feed, then a pretzel split in half on the same green bench, the one with the wobbly leg.
Ana, you were eight the year things at home changed, and I worried what those Saturdays would carry. Turns out they carried everything. You'd save up your whole week and hand it to me between the reptile house and the lions. I learned more about your life on that wobbly bench than most fathers learn at a full dinner table.
And I want to say this plainly, because it's true and because both families are here tonight: Teresa and Glenn, you raised this remarkable woman with grace, and I've never once had to do it alone.
Somewhere along the way the zoo stopped being ours. You grew a life I wasn't steering, full of people I didn't choose. Then you brought Felix to Sunday lunch. He asked me about the goats before I could bore him with the story, because you'd already told him. He knew about the wobbly bench. He'd been listening the way I used to listen, saving up your week and holding it carefully.
Felix, you didn't win a daughter's hand. You inherited a standing appointment. She tells you everything, and I've watched you hold it like it matters, because it does.
So here's my wish for the two of you. May you always be someone's favorite Saturday. May you keep a bench somewhere, wobbly leg and all, where the whole week gets handed over and nothing gets dropped.
To Ana and Felix.
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