I'd rather build you all a set of dining chairs than stand up here. Give me a chisel and a quiet afternoon and I'm a happy man. Words in front of a crowd? That's a different kind of joinery. But Abby asked me to say something, and I've never once said no to Abby, so here we are.
When she was seven, she used to sneak out to my shop in the garage. I'd find her sitting on an overturned bucket, sorting the offcuts I'd tossed aside, the scraps too small to use. She'd hand them back to me one at a time and say, "This one's still good, Dad. You just have to see it." And she was usually right. We built a birdhouse out of that pile once. Crooked roof. Two of the birds moved in anyway.
That's Abby. She looks at the pieces other people would throw out and she sees what they could be. She did it with a garage full of scrap wood, and years later she did it with a shy guy who spilled coffee on her the day they met.
Jared, you passed the only test that ever mattered in our family. You came out to the shop. You didn't check your phone. You asked how the mortise and tenon held without a single screw, and you actually listened to the answer. A man who wants to understand how things are built to last is a man I trust to build one.
To Abby's mother and to Jared's folks: today we're widening the table. There's always room for more chairs, and lucky for you, I know a guy who makes them.
So to Abby and Jared. May you always be the two who look at the rough pieces and see what's still good. Here's to a house that holds.
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