I've carried boxes up more staircases for Rebecca than I can count. The first apartment with the door that stuck. The one over the bakery where everything smelled like cinnamon by August. The place with no elevator and a couch that did not want to make the turn on the landing. Every single time, she'd hand me a box marked FRAGILE that turned out to be full of shoes, and every single time she'd say, "This is the last one, Dad."
I'm Martin, Rebecca's father, and I stopped believing "the last one" somewhere around move number six.
Here's what I noticed over the years. Each place she moved into, she'd unpack the same photos, hang the same little brass clock, and it would start to feel like hers within a day. She has always known how to make a home. What she didn't always have was someone helping her carry the boxes in.
Then a few years ago I met Colin. And the first time I helped Rebecca move after that, I wasn't the one steadying the couch on the landing. Colin was already there, sleeves up, Max handing him screws one at a time like it was the most important job in the world.
Max, you should know something. Your mom builds a home wherever she goes. But this one, this one you three are building together, has a foundation the others didn't. Colin, you didn't just fall for Rebecca. You made room in your life for both of them, and you did it like it was the easiest thing you'd ever done.
Second chances don't come with a guarantee. They come with people brave enough to try again, gently, with their eyes open.
So to Rebecca, Colin, and Max. This one really is the last move. And it's the one worth every staircase. To home.
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