When Danny was seven, he built a "rocket" out of the recycling bin, two broom handles, and most of a roll of my duct tape. He announced he was flying to the moon on Saturday. When Saturday came and the bin didn't leave the patio, he wasn't crushed. He just said, "Needs bigger engines," and started again.
That's my son. He has never once mistaken a setback for an ending.
I've watched him rebuild that rocket in a hundred different forms since — exams he retook, a knee that kept him off the pitch for a year, a first flat with a kitchen tap that never fully stopped dripping. Every time, same face. "Needs bigger engines." Then back to work.
And here's the thing about a man who keeps building. When something finally works, he knows it. He doesn't take it for granted.
The day he told me about Priya, he didn't lead with how clever she was, or how she out-argued him about films, though both are true. He said, "Dad, she makes me want to be less lazy and more brave." I put the kettle down. Because that's not a boy describing a girlfriend. That's a man who's found his bigger engines.
Priya, from the first Sunday you sat at our table and corrected my pronunciation of a dish your grandmother makes — kindly, but you corrected me — I knew you'd fit right in. We're a family that says what it thinks and then puts the kettle on. You belong here. And to your family, thank you for raising the woman who steadies my restless son.
So — to Danny and Priya. May you keep building, together. And when something needs bigger engines, may you never doubt for a second who's beside you.
To the happy couple.
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