Eighty-one years old, and they hand me the microphone. Somebody wasn't thinking clearly.
I'm Walter — Grandpa Walt to the one who matters most tonight. And I want to tell you about the summer Clara was seven.
Her father, my son Daniel, was working two jobs that year, and money was thin. So Clara and I built a "restaurant" in my garden shed. She wrote the menu in purple crayon — everything cost one hug. She'd seat me on an upturned bucket, take my order with terrible seriousness, and bring me a plate of dandelions and one slightly warm biscuit she'd smuggled from the kitchen. Best meals of my life, and I've eaten in Paris.
What I remember most is how she looked after everyone even then. She'd save the biggest biscuit for her dad when he came home tired. Seven years old, and already watching to see who needed taking care of.
That's the thing I need you all to understand about Clara. She grew up, but that part never changed.
And James — I watched you at the hospital last winter when I had my scare. You sat with me at two in the morning doing crossword puzzles because you knew I couldn't sleep. You didn't fuss. You just stayed. And I thought, well. There it is. She's found someone who saves the biggest biscuit too.
Daniel, look at your girl. You raised her right, son, and today you can rest a little.
Clara, James — marriage isn't the dandelions and the crayon menu. It's the ordinary Tuesdays. It's noticing who's tired and staying up with the crossword.
So raise your glasses with me. To Clara and James — may you always be the one who saves the biggest biscuit for the other. To the newlyweds.
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