Abuela Knows Best

Mijo, come here. Let your abuela say something. I know everyone's been giving speeches, but I'm the oldest one in this room, so I get the last word. That's how it works in this family.

[Groom's name], you were my first grandchild. When they put you in my arms, I made you a promise that I would always be there for you. I've kept that promise for thirty years, and I'm not stopping now.

I've seen you grow, mijo. I've seen you fall and get back up. I've seen you make mistakes and learn from them. And I've seen the way you are with [Bride's name], gentle, patient, silly, real. That's how your abuelo was with me. He used to bring me flowers every Friday, not because it was a special occasion, but because he said every Friday with me was special. Fifty-two years we had together. I pray you get even more.

[Bride's name], mi amor, you are already family. You've been family since the first time you sat in my kitchen and let me teach you how to make tamales. You didn't complain, you didn't rush, you just listened and learned. That's love, mija. That's respect.

Marriage is not always a fiesta. Some days it's quiet work, patience, forgiveness, choosing each other again and again. But if you build your home on faith and family, you will never lose your way.

Que Dios los bendiga siempre. May God bless you always.

Now someone get me to the dance floor. This abuela didn't get dressed up for nothing.