The summer we were seventeen, Holly and I waitressed at a diner off Route 9, the kind with vinyl booths that stuck to the backs of your knees and a coffee machine that only worked if you hit it twice. Most nights we made four dollars in tips and split a plate of fries at closing.
I'm Kayla, and I've had the best seat in the house for Holly's whole life since.
Here's what I learned about her in that diner. There was a regular, an old man who came in alone every Tuesday and ordered the same grilled cheese. Holly memorized how he liked it, edges crisp, cut on the diagonal, and she'd slide an extra pickle on the plate without charging him. She never mentioned it. She just did it, week after week, because she noticed people. That's Holly. She sees the person everyone else walks past, and she quietly makes their Tuesday a little better.
For years I wondered who would notice her back the way she notices everyone. Then Ryan showed up.
Ryan, the first time you met me, you remembered I don't eat onions, and you've flagged them off my plate at every dinner since. You listen the way she listens. You laugh at her terrible impressions, including the one of me, which is not accurate. And you look at her like she's the extra pickle, the good surprise, the best part of an ordinary day.
Holly, you spent that whole summer taking care of everybody else. Watching you today, cared for like this, is the thing I hoped for and never quite had words for.
So here's to Holly and Ryan. May your life together be edges crisp, cut on the diagonal, and always one sweet thing more than you ordered. To the happy couple.
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