The night before her first big job interview, Nadia called me at 2 a.m. in a full panic because she couldn't decide between two nearly identical grey blazers. We spent forty minutes on the phone. She wore the third one. She got the job.
That's my best friend for you — and I'm Priya, the person she trusts with the truly important decisions, like blazers and, apparently, this speech.
Here's the thing about Nadia. She is the friend who shows up. When my nan was in hospital, Nadia drove three hours with a cool bag full of the exact soup my nan liked, sat in that waiting room with me, and didn't say a single wise thing — she just stayed. That's her whole heart in one small, unglamorous act. She stays.
So when she started mentioning this "Sam from the climbing gym," I paid attention. Because she talked about him differently. Softer. And the first time I met Sam, he'd already learned my coffee order — from Nadia — just in case. I knew then. Anyone who studies the small things about the people she loves is someone who understands what she's actually worth.
Sam, you got the woman who reorganises your worries into a manageable list and then quietly handles half of them herself. You got the loyal one, the 2 a.m. one, the soup-in-a-cool-bag one. Look after that. I know you will — I've watched you do it already.
Nadia, I've had a front-row seat to every version of you, and this one, the one standing here today, is the happiest I have ever seen you.
So raise your glasses. To Nadia and Sam — to the soft way you talk about each other, to blazers number three, and to a lifetime of showing up. To the happy couple.
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