When Grace was six, she planned her first wedding. The groom was our golden retriever, Biscuit, who wore a bow tie made from my good kitchen towel, and the ceremony was held under the apple tree with a congregation of teddy bears. She informed me, very seriously, that the bride always walks slowly "so everyone can see the dress." Twenty-six years later, this morning, I watched her walk down that aisle slowly. And everyone saw the dress.
Some of you travelled a very long way to be in that congregation today — from Perth, from Galway, from Aunt Marion's caravan two fields over that she still refuses to leave. Thank you. It means more to us than you know.
People ask what Grace was like as a girl. She was the child who'd give her last sweet away and then insist she hadn't wanted it anyway. The one who cried at the news and then wrote letters to strangers. That soft, fierce heart never left her — it just grew up and learned to argue about mortgages.
And then came Tom. I remember the first dinner he came to, when he quietly reorganised my chaotic spice rack while the kettle boiled, and said nothing about it. I knew then. Not because of the spice rack — though it is a thing of beauty now — but because he'd noticed something small that would make my life easier, and he'd fixed it without needing thanks. That is exactly how he loves my daughter. Steadily. Attentively. In the small things that add up to everything.
Grace, you were always the girl who walked slowly so the world could catch up. Tom, thank you for walking beside her.
So raise your glasses. To Grace and Tom — to the slow walks, the noticed things, and a lifetime of them. To the happy couple.
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