Three years ago, Priya found me standing in the pasta aisle holding two identical jars of sauce, completely paralysed. She took both out of my hands, put a third one in the trolley, and said, "You need looking after." Reader, she was not wrong. I'm Tom, the lucky one, and I've been looked after ever since.
To everyone who travelled to be here β Aunt Meera, who flew eleven hours and still corrected the seating plan on arrival β thank you. To Priya's mum and dad, who welcomed me before I'd earned it and fed me until I couldn't stand, thank you for trusting me with her. And to my parents, who taught me what a steady, ordinary, forty-year kind of love looks like β I hope you saw it here today.
To the friends who held things together when I was too nervous to knot my own tie this morning: I owe you a pint and possibly an apology.
Now, Priya. People kept asking me what made me sure. It wasn't the big things. It was the small one. It was the way, after my worst days, she never tried to fix me β she just made tea, sat close, and stayed. She reorganised my chaos into a life. She turned a flat into a home, and a nervous man in a pasta aisle into someone who finally knew where he was going.
I can't promise I'll always pick the right jar. I can't promise I'll ever fold a fitted sheet. But I can promise you this: I will keep choosing you, on the loud days and the quiet ones, for as long as I'm standing.
So please, raise your glasses. To Priya β my home, my calm, my whole heart. To us, and to the long, ordinary, extraordinary years ahead.
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