Sofia and I are four months apart, which means for one entire summer every year of our childhood, we were technically the same age, and she never once let me forget she got there first.
I'm Natalie, Sofia's cousin, though the word cousin has always felt too small for it. Every June, our parents dropped us at Grandma Rosa's lake house, and for two months we were sisters. We shared a bunk bed, one hairbrush, and a strict rotation for who got the good side of the dock. Sofia always negotiated the good side. She'd argue her case like a tiny lawyer until I gave up, and then she'd hand me half her popsicle, because that's who she is. She'll take the last word, and then she'll take care of you.
I've watched her do it her whole life. When Grandma got too tired to make her famous lemon cake, Sofia learned the recipe standing on a kitchen stool, and she still makes it wrong on purpose, a little too tart, exactly the way Grandma did.
So when Sofia called to tell me about Ethan, I braced myself. This was the cousin who could talk anyone into anything. And Ethan? Ethan just listens to her whole argument, smiles, and says, "Okay, but let's do it your way and mine." He gives her the good side of the dock and somehow makes her feel like she won.
Sofia, you have loved fiercely since we were six years old fighting over one popsicle. Ethan, you saw all that fire and decided to build a home inside it.
To Sofia and Ethan. May your life together always taste a little like that lake in July, and may you never run out of lemon cake, even the too-tart kind.
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