Summer we were nineteen, Tara tried to teach me stick shift in her mom's ancient Corolla in the empty lot behind the bowling alley. I stalled it eleven times. She counted. On the twelfth, instead of laughing, she put her hand flat on the dashboard and said, "Okay. Feel where the car wants to go. Then meet it there." I have thought about that sentence for fifteen years.
That's Tara. She doesn't shove you forward. She waits for the moment you're ready, and she meets you there.
Omar, when we first met, I watched you learn to drive stick from her too. You stalled it. You laughed at yourself. And she put her hand on the dash and said the exact same thing to you. That's when I knew.
So here's to a marriage that moves like she taught us both. Feel where you want to go. Then meet each other there. Over and over, for as long as the road runs.
To Tara and Omar. May you never stall for long.
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