Kim struck out looking three times in our first rec-league game, then spent the whole drive home breaking down her "approach at the plate" like she was headed to the majors. That's my best friend. Fully committed, occasionally to the wrong thing, but you cannot make her quit.
So when a certain shortstop from the team we always lost to started showing up to our postgame nachos, I paid attention. Kim, who overthinks everything, who once texted me eleven times about whether "sounds good" was too enthusiastic, said exactly nothing. She just kept saving Alex a seat. Every single week. Saving the seat and pretending she hadn't.
Here is what I noticed about Alex before Kim ever admitted a thing. Alex remembered that I take my coffee with too much sugar. Alex learned Kim's mom's name and used it. Alex, when we blew a nine-run lead in July, walked over, handed Kim a Gatorade, and said, "Next inning's yours." I stole that line, by the way. I've used it in three arguments since.
I came to this wedding as Kim's person. Somewhere along the way I got a second one. That's the sneaky gift of loving Alex. She doesn't take up your space, she widens it.
Watching them together, I've stopped worrying about my friend overthinking her life. Alex is the person Kim doesn't rehearse around. No eleven texts. No approach at the plate. Just Kim, easy, home.
Kim, you finally stopped saving the seat and gave her the whole bench. Alex, thank you for being worth the wait she never admitted she was having.
So to Kim and Alex, who found each other over lost games and shared nachos: may every inning from here be yours, and may you never once need me to explain your batting stance again.
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